Full of
compassionate wisdom ... a
rich, wise bookThe case-studies here are presented so well that they often
read like good fiction, but by an author who is endlessly patient with her characters ... There are all kinds of lessons to be learnt from this
wise, kindly book ... Julia Samuel has a basic faith in human decency, and
her optimism shines through every sentenceJulia Samuel's
compassionate realism shines through every word of this
wise, kind volume. It is emphatically not a 'self-help' book, but
a beautifully written celebration of the strength of the human spirit ... Wisdom and experience alone would make this
essential reading for us all - but, in addition, the
extraordinary generosity of Julia's personality shines through every word, offering
profound understanding and consolation ... It feels
a privilege reading this
wonderful book full of insightCannot recommend it highly enoughIn this
moving and insightful book, Julia Samuel explores how we can navigate, adapt and ultimately become the people we'd hope to be but also to nurture ourselves and understand what makes us us (...)
this is just the book we all need when times get tough - and even when they aren't ... [A]
comfort readA
comforting and enlightening read ... If you're looking for comfort in the presence of wise and caring strangers, then
this is the book for youThe psychotherapist author of the acclaimed
Grief Works returns with
a bracing, brilliant exploration of how we can adapt and thrive during our most difficult times (...)
Samuel dispenses much wisdom and empathy about the hard times we experience (...) to help us better navigate the changes we will all face sooner or laterI loved
This Too Shall Pass. So
full of wisdom and light. I learnt a lot and also felt comforted and soothed. Julia really is
a force for good in the world. I wish more people could experience the joy of being with her, and this book is a way that they canAs you read this book, you absorb new and
radical ways of thinking about yourself, family, and friends. It's
compassionate and gentle yet is fiercely on the side of building sustainable and satisfying relations even when they have gone wrong.
Read it.Julia Samuel is
the psychotherapist you wish you had on call and
her books are the next best thing. The challenges we all face in life are unpicked, explained and made bearable in this
thoughtful, illuminating book.
A book for anyone experiencing the pain of change from divorce to debilitating illness. Julia Samuel's stories from the therapy room light the way for the rest of us'
An important book for our times. It is both wise and compassionate which
will be helpful to many readersI
absolutely loved it. Clear, compassionate, occasionally very very funny but mostly heart wrenching
A profound exploration of resilience in modern life - a much-needed reminder that we yield power over our lives, even when it feels like we don't. It's
one of the most valuable books I've ever read and my respect for Julia Samuel and her work is immeasurableLittle bells of clarity and understanding chime throughout this book. At once intimate and universal, this is a lifesaver.
Fascinating, rigorous and beautifully written, you can hear Julia's voice on every pageRelevant,
wise and
compassionateThis
brilliant book
does what no others do - it talks about the problems of everyday life, with grown-up children, complex families, the stresses of work, in a
compassionate and truly insightful way. I would challenge anyone not to recognise themselves in at least one of the
beautifully detailed case studies. It is
a privilege to be able to listen in to a
masterful therapist at workThe considerable force of this book lies in Julia's ability to listen completely. Being such an
extraordinary listener she becomes an
extraordinary storytellerWisdom and experience alone would make
This Too Shall Pass essential reading for every single person - but, in addition, the
extraordinary generosity of Julia's personality shines through every word, offering
profound understanding and consolationMoving and inspiring, Julia Samuel writes with the quiet clarity that comes with true wisdom. In her observations of the heart-breaking and life-affirming events that affect the lives of ordinary people, she has the ability to find the eye of the storm and to hold her clients in stillness there as they come to terms with the chaos of change. Reading
This Too Shall Pass is
illuminating and comforting. We all resist change, and Julia Samuel shows us how to find the courage to weather it and sail out into the calm beyond. She is
honest, open and inspiring in her comments, like
the best friend we all aspire to be.
A life raft of a book, hold onto it and you will stay afloat through life's inevitable mishaps
A remarkable portrayal of how we need to understand ourselves to truly healThis book is wonderful[She] is a sort of human oxytocin'One of the most valuable books I've ever read' Adwoa Aboah
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If change is the natural order of things, why do we struggle with the huge milestones in our lives?
At a time when even the most certain things feel disrupted, acclaimed psychotherapist Julia Samuel provides an antidote to the chaos we are all feeling. In this Sunday Times bestseller, Julia draws on hours of conversations with her patients to show how we can learn to adapt and even thrive during our most difficult and transformative experiences.
From a new mother struggling with the decision to return to work, to a father handling a serious medical diagnosis, from a woman deciding whether to leave her husband for a younger lover, to a man struggling to repair his marriage after the trauma of suffering with COVID-19 in the ICU, this book unflinchingly deals with the hard times in family, love, work, health and identity.
Illuminated by the latest social and psychological research, these 19 powerful, unforgettable and deeply intimate stories about everyday people will inform our understanding of our own unique response to change and improve the way we approach challenges at every stage of life.
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'Examines the power that comes from dealing effectively with change' Elizabeth Day